I have giggled to myself and so very much appreciated the little things that divorced men I have dated have done for me.They have taken out my garbage, carried my luggage, taken my car for an oil change, cooked me dinner, talked about my day at work and brought me breakfast in bed.Ladies, as much as we love men (and, I really do), we want to acknowledge that they can often mature, grow up and find their way in a relationship a bit more slowly than women do.I believe that marriage teaches men responsibility, structure, how to co-define reality, what women want and how to put someone else before themselves.The women like the flexibility and sense of adventure of their more spontaneous, younger companions, Tina B.Tessina, Ph D, a licensed family therapist in practice in Long Beach, Calif., and author of The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again, tells Web MD.According to a recent AARP poll, one-sixth of women in their 50s, in fact, prefer men in their 40s.It's not what you think -- the stamina or "re-boot" ability of the younger male.
Intuitively you want to be there to guide the youth in his life, but he needs to be able to come to you when he feels it’s necessary. Children are not stupid and your authenticity will win the hearts of everyone anyway. However, participating in their world is the gateway to bonding in both worlds.5. What mom wouldn’t love to have you include their offspring in activities?I have found that men who have been married are a bit more structured and familiar with the little things. Those were the ages of Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore when the couple tied the knot last year, making their highly publicized May-December romance official.Of course, factors other than hormones affect sexuality, for example, being experienced at sex, but a man increases his chances of sexual compatibility by marrying an older woman. Having lived longer, a person is more likely to have maturity that comes with age: not to fight so much about trivia, not as likely to have an affair having gotten that out of her system.Marrying an older woman, on average, means marrying a more mature person. Parenting is far more difficult and stressful than many people realize.Although there are still stigmas surrounding dating divorced men, here are a few reasons you just might have a delightful experience: Men are, by nature, fixers and problem solvers.